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Let me introduce myself. I'm a lady who craves for a simple life, in this complicated world. I love the love that exists in this world. I smile when I experience love, I tear when I'm touched, I daydream when I'm bored. I like things simple, but also deep--the depth of things, very meaningful.

I have love and sunshine bursting out of me. :D
Believe it or not, love always wins.



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Shar! :)
I've survived 21 years!
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The Special Leftie.



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MSN.
ORANGE.Green.Yellow.
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smokers.
boredom.
gloomy atmosphere.
my bad habits/manners.
arguments.



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A BOOKSHELF FULL OF MY FAVE BOOKS!!
Play guitar/piano.
happiness.
good health.
travel around the world.
watch shooting stars.
a better world.

也要用自己的爱感化人心。 (:



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    Friday, November 27, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    When people ask you, "How are you?"

    What do you reply?

    Do you reply "I'm fine."?
    People usually take this question for granted.
    I thought that the different replies to this question meant different things:

    1. "I'm fine."
    Usually when I get this reply, I'd feel super retarded because it's as though I've not asked anything, because the answer is pretty much expected, isn't it?

    It could also mean that these people who answered aren't interested to start any kind of conversation with me at all. That's also fine with me. Their wish shall be granted eventually when the conversation stops. HAHA. I'm so evil.

    Ok. Another possibility for this answer may also be that these people don't have much life at all, and their life is a smooth ride. This shows how monotonous their life is like. No excitement at all. Gosh... what a boring life! It's not wrong to lead this kind of life though, because if they're happy with it, they can continue to stick to it. :)

    2. "OK lor..."
    This reply is quite similar to the generic scenario when girls tell their boyfriends that they're feeling OK when actually they're not. (tsk..I wouldn't say that to my future bf =P)

    This reply has a hidden meaning. It might be that the person has something in mind but do not wish to share yet, and he/she is in fact NOT OK, since the answer is similar to the meaning of "so-so". So-so means good and bad, so certainly, there must be something going on in this person's life. :)

    3. "Great! Awesome!" or "Bad... terrible..."
    These people are very expressive and willing to share with people about their experiences. It shows that they are open to talk about their issues and trust most people easily. They are usually very friendly to people around them, and would love to share the joy and pain because feelings are part of life as they see it. Ups and downs make life more interesting and beautiful. :)

    I can say that I fall into the third category. HAHAHA.



    世界因你而美丽 11:21 AM



    Thursday, November 26, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    http://www.ipersonic.com/

    Found this website. Cool personality quiz, try it! :D

    I'm an Engaged Idealist:
    My Type
    Engaged Idealists are extroverted and helpful. Others find them to be very congenial and inspiring - especially as they are always willing to see the best in the other person. Their humour, their energy and their optimism attract other people. Engaged Idealists are very good at communicating and are good at convincing and firing on others. That is why it is a matter of course that they often take over the leading role in groups. This personality type often produces very charismatic persons.

    Engaged Idealists have an unusually strong ability to empathise. They are tolerant and generous towards others; they sometimes tend to idealise their friends. They always try to suit everybody and want their relationships to be harmonious and satisfactory. To achieve this, they are prepared to invest a great deal and to put their requirements last. As Engaged Idealists are very considerate, there is the danger of them sacrificing and overexerting themselves for others. In their job, they therefore have to be very careful not to develop a burnout syndrome.

    Engaged Idealists are reliable, well organised and love structuring complicated situations. They have difficulty accepting criticism; they quickly feel hurt and misunderstood. Their perfectionism also influences their love life - they look for the perfect relationship for life. Once they have made their decision, they are faithful, well-balanced and loving partners. However, should they get involved with the wrong person, it can happen that they allow themselves to be exploited for a long time before they end the relationship.

    Adjectives which describe your type: extroverted, theoretical, emotional, planning, idealistic, committed, likable, enthusiastic, responsible, helpful, loyal, diplomatic, friendly, inspiring, caring, solicitous, optimistic, effusive, adaptable, communicative, articulate, convincing, energetic, optimistic, open, vulnerable


    My Career
    As an Engaged Idealist you are one of the extroverted personality types. You enjoy working in a colorfully diverse group of people who interest and inspire you. Working in a “secluded room” is not your thing. You enjoy emphasizing with those around you and soon everybody senses the high priority and importance people represent to you. Therefore a team-oriented project is just right for you.

    Your insight into human nature, your feel for your colleague’s and/or subordinate’s positive sides and potentials and your preparedness to encourage and support everyone around you to the best of your ability quickly brings them closer to you. People like to ask you for advice, appreciate your caring ways and appreciate to be taken under your wings. Within your means you are always available to others who need you because you yourself enjoy the ultimate gratification of being able to help others to make the best of themselves and to be successful mediating conflicts among people.

    You are well suited to be an executive: It is difficult to resist your charisma, your enthusiasm and your ability to excite and motivate others. Authoritarian management attitudes are not your thing; it is your way to convince others of a project’s reason and significance who will then look forward to follow you voluntarily. You place a lot of value on creating the willingness to cooperate in others and with your gift to motivate that usually comes easy to you. You do not enjoy conflicts, need harmony and invest lots of energy and time in a good working climate and a harmonic relationship of your colleagues among each other.

    With your customers you also prefer to maintain friendly and sincere contacts that are characterized by mutual support and goodwill. To “pull someone across the table” in order to get an economic advantage does not even enter your mind; you would rather create a “win-win” situation so that everybody departs with the feeling of having been successful. Consequently you are appreciated as a trustworthy, reliable and tolerant boss, colleague and business partner. You are not made for working in environments that depend on steel elbows, aggressive competition and assertiveness at any price. Envy, resentment and a continuously strained atmosphere make you feel uncomfortable.

    My Love Life
    For you, love is the Alpha and Omega in life - you simply can’t be happy without it. No other type falls in love as quickly, strongly, and passionately. That has a lot to do with your limitless enthusiasm, and that does not only apply to things, but to people as well. When you love someone, you put him/her on a pedestal, surround him/her in a blaze of glory, and idealize him/her to the point that the people around you occasionally begin to doubt your soundness of mind.

    Interestingly enough, you are normally blessed with excellent antennas for nuances. However, when you are in love, some systems appear to be defective: You won’t see a single spot on the white shining armor of your dream prince/princess, because you are convinced that he/she is a pure angel who fell from the clouds and landed right at your feet.

    For the “target” of your affection, this passion is simply overwhelming. Who would not love to be raised into heaven, to be showered with your unconditional adoration and admiration? You court the partner of your choice with infinite imagination, empathy, and charm giving him/her no chance to resist. If you chose well, this can end in a long and happy relationship because you are a faithful and dedicate person who is willing to invest a lot into the partnership. In the long run, it is always given the most important priority in your life. As far as you are concerned, you entered a union for life, and you take nothing more seriously than the obliga-tion you took on out of love. Dedicated, you try tirelessly to divine your partner’s wishes before he/she is aware of them him/herself, and if at all possible, immediately satisfy them.



    世界因你而美丽 11:31 AM



    Thursday, November 19, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    I just watched 2012 movie 2 days ago with my family. It has been a long long LONG time since I went out with my family, and I felt really hyped up about it. hehehe...

    We reached the movie theatre very early, and I wonder why... Maybe my parents were very excited too, especially it was a special time for all of us to get together once again and they wouldn't want to miss any part of the big show. LOL. They're super cute.
    When we took our seats of 5 in one of the rows, my dad was trying to arrange everyone,"Mummy sit beside me, Ding Yuan sit between Yun Shuang and Mummy, and I'll sit between Ying and Mummy."
    I was amused and puzzled then, and I asked him,"Papa, why do you want to arrange in this manner ah?"
    Then he said,"Oh, because I can discuss about the movie with you and Ding Yuan and I can explain the movie plot to Mummy, and Ding Yuan can share his popcorn with Yun Shuang and Mummy lor!"
    And then I went,"ehh... ohmigawd... okayyys.... hahahahahhaha..."

    And we made a lot of noise in the almost-empty theatre, and there's this man sitting next to me feeling somewhat awkward by all the noise made from us (or maybe I was too sensitive), but WHO CARES?! I just want to enjoy the best out of everything during this precious day with my family. Let go of my self-image!!!!!!!! =DDD

    Hmm...and then the movie started. I helped Dad to turn off his hp to silent mode, and he was quite talkative at the beginning of the show, and it sort of disturbed the filled theatre since his voice was low bass tone. I was trying to hush him. After a whie, he gradually got mesmerized by the movie and kept all quiet. HAHA.
    After the show, mummy told me she was so in suspense almost all the while during the show. Her expression was so funny when she told me, like an innocent, scared little girl. Cute. HAHA.
    It was a great show!!! If any of you have the chance to catch it, GO AND WATCH IT!!!!!!
    HIGHLY RECOMMENDED MOVIE.

    Here's the trailer:







    I was pretty emotional during the middle and the later part of the movie when everyone was fighting for their survival and had forgotten about helping one another out to survive. It made me reflect on my own actions and then the whole of mankind. I cried. It was heart-breaking to see the cruelty of the human heart, especially myself. I've so much greed, selfishness, blinded by luxury, laziness etc...
    This movie slapped me awake of all my stupidity. I'm grateful to the producer, and everyone else who made this movie so alive that touched my heart very deeply.
    OK, because this movie is so good, I forgot to take out my titbits to share with my family during the movie, so it was brought home in the end. It's the Zoo Animals biscuits which I love, and I could only find this picture below that's nearest to how it looks like (actually it's almost alike!):

    Took these pictures from a blogger. wahahaha... Yeapz. I ate these biscuits for breakfast this morning. YUMMY YUM YUM!!! =D I ate sheeps, owl, elephant, duck, pelican (which looks like a Mummy), tiger, rabbit, horse and squirrels... and then I thought of Taha's squirrel (飞凤-the flying phoenix, as he named it). wahahahaha... ok, so I ate many animals today. LOL! BISCUIT animals, in case you're too blur and misread what I typed.

    Zoo animal biscuits ROCKS!!! =D

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    世界因你而美丽 9:44 AM



    Tuesday, November 10, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    I came across this awesome website!! =D


    THE SECRET TO HAPPINESS: There's no secret, actually. ;)
    http://thankgoodnessitsmonday.com/




    I like this post:
    How To Keep Your New Year’s Resolution (and any other one for that matter)
    "Remember to use M.A.C.E.!

    Motivation - be sure it’s self-motivated, not external
    Attainable - make sure it’s within reach. We’re talking days, not months
    Controllable - you have to be able to control the goal. Weight loss is not a controllable goal, it’s a potential result of a healthier-living goal
    Enjoyable - if you don’t enjoy the process, you wont reach your goal."


    and this one:




    世界因你而美丽 11:31 AM



    Monday, November 9, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    You may find this very foolish, but if one day I have the chance, I would want to go to......

    1) Marina Barrage!!
    2) Pulau Tekong (hopefully when my brother goes there, I can make it)
    3) A live concert! hmm... stefanie sun? fish leong?
    4) Ben and Jerry's!~ (I haven't been to one yet...)
    5) GV VivoCity Gold Class


    I think that's all I can think of for now.
    I had thought of so many other things to do too, like going jogging by the beach in the morning, but it's inconvenient to carry my bag around and jog...

    *smiles*
    :)



    世界因你而美丽 8:06 PM



    Sunday, November 8, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    Almost everything we do in life, is to receive love from others. We all need love and acceptance. Why are we so busy in our lives everyday? Because we want to be loved by others, for being capable, responsible, independent etc.

    Now now... Independent and love sounds contradicting together.
    Independence concerns one subject, whereas love requires two subjects. Even if a person loves nothing, this person AND nothingness are still two subjects altogether.

    So how can we be independent, yet achieve love from others?

    It depends on how we look at independence.
    We can be independent in terms of personal power, that we can accomplish tasks without much guidance (I use guidance here because rather, we all need support from others, and guidance is a different thing). This independence is unlike being someone who doesn't need support at all. Tell me, who doesn't need help and support in life? This kind of person would be so detached from the world, and love cannot exist in his life. Only when a person's independence encompasses personal power, will love be able to connect through him with all others around, naturally.

    To be natural is a way of life.
    This is nature, naturally.

    Chimology~
    I read through what I typed, and I found it hard to understand.
    Somehow, what I typed just flowed out so naturally...



    世界因你而美丽 10:17 PM



    Monday, November 2, 2009

    rainbow of fruits♥ ♥

    It's really heartwarming to know that I've love inside me, dying to gush out and spread to every corner of the world.

    It's very amazing to know that I'm loved by others, who love themselves at the same time, and how readily I acknowledge their love for me, and vice versa.

    It's just beautiful that I'm here for a purpose, instead of just to eat, sleep, work and play.

    The purpose is beyond imagination.
    It is what it is always been, and all the while there.



    And from someone I admire,
    "If you enter this world being loved, and you leave this world loving, then everything that happens in between can be dealt with."
    THANK YOU, with all my heart.


    Finally, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my dearest mummy!!!
    Although she's sleeping now and may not hear from me, I do believe in human connections through unseen "brain waves". ha ha ha..



    世界因你而美丽 1:13 AM