I might be thinking too much, but I don't wish to discredit my feelings.
This is not the time to blame the person, or think that there's something wrong with the person, but it is the time to look at myself. What is the thing which I need to work on myself at this point in time?
Till this point of my life, I know that I want to validate my feelings, because these are my feelings, and I am in charge of them. Acknowledging my feelings doesn't mean that I'm full of myself, but to learn about self-respect, loving myself and in turn, loving God, being grateful for everything that I face in life.